She's driving me up the wall... can someone help?

Ok enough is enough!! Your mother would drive anyone nuts .Its time your mother had a time out on the stair shes been using you and worse you have been letting her. Put your phone on silent let it ring till she gets fed up disconnect your house phone she will take the hint eventually . If she does play the im sick card say god it must be catching and give her your list your exhausted tired etc and you definately dont have the energy to help her perhaps when your better . Or you just sit her down and tell her the truth your only 1 person you cant cope and that your siblings are going to have to pull their weight.Your daughter needs you more than your mother so its crunch time, and i know you love your mum but shes definately pushing it and you have to decide whether you can put up with this for the forseeable future. So start tommorow otherwise you will keep putting it off. I wish you lots of luck